[AccessD] Drew Wutka memorial ideas

Rocky Smolin rockysmolin at bchacc.com
Wed Oct 5 19:40:18 CDT 2011


"if it were my son, I'd want them."  There's you answer, I think.  Maybe
Hanna will read them one day.

Anyway, I think that's a wonderful idea, and a wonderful legacy for them to
have.  

R
 

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[mailto:accessd-bounces at databaseadvisors.com] On Behalf Of Susan Harkins
Sent: Wednesday, October 05, 2011 5:25 PM
To: Access Developers discussion and problem solving
Subject: Re: [AccessD] Drew Wutka memorial ideas

I was trying to think if his mom would like my copies of the articles we
wrote -- some of them were in print, in IMA and a few others. I thought
about sending her the actual journals. It seems kind of silly, they won't
really want to read them, but... do you think she'd want them? He probably
got a copy, but if they find them, they probably won't realize what they're
dealing with -- will most likely think they're just old technical journals
and throw them out. On the other hand, they might not care -- I just don't
know -- it's not like they're great literature or anything, but I think... 
if it were my son, I'd want them. I just don't know what to do.

Susan H.


> One of the things that is especially helpful to children struggling 
> with grief is a memory book.  Since our memories of Drew are 
> "virtual", we couldn't contribute photos or such, but the archives 
> must have many threads that include the outrageous exchanges we had 
> over the years with Drew in there fanning the flames.  I wonder if it 
> would be possible to put something together with snippets of his humor 
> and insight and some typical teasing that might serve to remind her as 
> the years pass of the kind of person her father was.  Those could be 
> put together in a scrapbook of sorts using online services and sent to 
> Drew's family.  We could even collaborate with them in creating 
> something like that that included photos and such they would like to 
> use to remember him and to preserve his memory.  I we covered the 
> cost, that would be a great memorial, and we could provide copies for 
> each member of his family.

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