A.D. Tejpal
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Thu Oct 6 23:17:15 CDT 2011
This is a question that remains has eternally defied any logical answer: Why should some one so exceptionally gifted, in prime of his life, leave us all of a sudden - out of turn? While one has to come to terms with inevitability of life & death, losing a genius like Drew in this untimely manner, comes as a rude shock to us all. He happened to be approximately 35 years younger to me and I have not had the opportunity to meet him personally. Despite the fact that Drew worked on a different plane, with dazzling brilliance, he was ever more than willing to help. With him on board, there was always the re-assurance that if any programming problem became too intricate, Drew would find a way. It is so sad that God's special children are often granted only a short time in this world. A.D. Tejpal ------------ ----- Original Message ----- From: Arthur Fuller To: Access Developers discussion and problem solving Sent: Friday, October 07, 2011 02:54 Subject: Re: [AccessD] Drew Wutka memorial ideas He taught me most of the stuff I know. I can't figure out why I am 10 years older and still alive. He was a very very very smart person. A. On Thu, Oct 6, 2011 at 11:28 AM, Mark A Matte <markamatte at hotmail.com>wrote: > > I agree. Drew was also listed as "one of the giants of AccessD" in > Martin's book. > > Not sure his family knows that...but I think this is a good representation > of how he was viewed and appreciated by the list as a whole. > > Mark A. Matte > > > > Date: Wed, 5 Oct 2011 21:32:09 -0400 > > From: jwcolby at colbyconsulting.com > > To: accessd at databaseadvisors.com > > Subject: Re: [AccessD] Drew Wutka memorial ideas > > > > I think they should be forwarded to the family. They might not know he > was "published". > > > > John W. Colby > > Colby Consulting > > > > On 10/5/2011 8:25 PM, Susan Harkins wrote: > > > I was trying to think if his mom would like my copies of the articles > we wrote -- some of them were > > > in print, in IMA and a few others. I thought about sending her the > actual journals. It seems kind of > > > silly, they won't really want to read them, but... do you think she'd > want them? He probably got a > > > copy, but if they find them, they probably won't realize what they're > dealing with -- will most > > > likely think they're just old technical journals and throw them out. On > the other hand, they might > > > not care -- I just don't know -- it's not like they're great literature > or anything, but I think... > > > if it were my son, I'd want them. I just don't know what to do. > > > > > > Susan H. > > > > > > > > >> One of the things that is especially helpful to children struggling > with > > >> grief is a memory book. Since our memories of Drew are "virtual", we > > >> couldn't contribute photos or such, but the archives must have many > threads > > >> that include the outrageous exchanges we had over the years with Drew > in > > >> there fanning the flames. I wonder if it would be possible to put > something > > >> together with snippets of his humor and insight and some typical > teasing > > >> that might serve to remind her as the years pass of the kind of person > her > > >> father was. Those could be put together in a scrapbook of sorts using > > >> online services and sent to Drew's family. We could even collaborate > with > > >> them in creating something like that that included photos and such > they > > >> would like to use to remember him and to preserve his memory. I we > covered > > >> the cost, that would be a great memorial, and we could provide copies > for > > >> each member of his family.