Jim Lawrence
accessd at shaw.ca
Sat Nov 17 00:38:11 CST 2007
Arthur; What a night to remember. Jim -----Original Message----- From: accessd-bounces at databaseadvisors.com [mailto:accessd-bounces at databaseadvisors.com] On Behalf Of Arthur Fuller Sent: Friday, November 16, 2007 6:24 AM To: Access Developers discussion and problem solving Subject: [AccessD] Hey, it's Friday Last night was my 60th birthday, and about 25 of my friends had a surprise party for me. I was completely clueless about its occurrence. I have a favourite Indian restaurant in Toronto called Shalimar, owned and operated by a good friend called Khalid, and ironically, I decided that that was where I wanted to have dinner last night. So I booked a reservation, little knowing that the entire restaurant had already been booked. Khalid managed to keep a straight voice when I called. My friend Norma and my sister Clare came with me, and there's a great bookstore/recordstore next door which I insisted upon visiting, little knowing that there was a party awaiting me next door. This is a small restaurant (always a good sign), and when I walked in, I saw that the whole place had been re-arranged, a dozen tables united into one enormous long table, and as I scanned the occupants I realized bit by bit that I knew everyone at the table, and finally it dawned on me. To break bread with good friends is a good thing. To find oneself as the centre of attention, so to speak, surrounded by good friends, is truly breathtaking -- and humbling. For some reason or other, I have a collection of quality people to call my friends. We had fabulous food, wonderful conversation and I even received some cool presents and cards. Forced at one point to stand and make a speech, all I could manage was to thank my friends for being my friends. I've known almost everyone in attendance for 30 or so years, some more. There were even emails from persons who could not attend, such as one of my oldest friends, Paul Grenkow, who teaches English in Beijing, who could not attend only because his wife was expected to give birth on the day. I'm a lucky man. I have wonderful friends. But I do caution you to think carefully about holding a surprise party for 60yo people. The heart palpitations are unbelievable. On the other hand, what better way to go. A. -- AccessD mailing list AccessD at databaseadvisors.com http://databaseadvisors.com/mailman/listinfo/accessd Website: http://www.databaseadvisors.com