Steve Schapel
miscellany at mvps.org
Sat Nov 17 13:57:55 CST 2007
Thanks for sharing this great story, Arthur. And congratulations. Regards Steve Arthur Fuller wrote: > Last night was my 60th birthday, and about 25 of my friends had a surprise > party for me. I was completely clueless about its occurrence. I have a > favourite Indian restaurant in Toronto called Shalimar, owned and operated > by a good friend called Khalid, and ironically, I decided that that was > where I wanted to have dinner last night. So I booked a reservation, little > knowing that the entire restaurant had already been booked. Khalid managed > to keep a straight voice when I called. My friend Norma and my sister Clare > came with me, and there's a great bookstore/recordstore next door which I > insisted upon visiting, little knowing that there was a party awaiting me > next door. This is a small restaurant (always a good sign), and when I > walked in, I saw that the whole place had been re-arranged, a dozen tables > united into one enormous long table, and as I scanned the occupants I > realized bit by bit that I knew everyone at the table, and finally it dawned > on me. > > To break bread with good friends is a good thing. To find oneself as the > centre of attention, so to speak, surrounded by good friends, is truly > breathtaking -- and humbling. For some reason or other, I have a collection > of quality people to call my friends. We had fabulous food, wonderful > conversation and I even received some cool presents and cards. Forced at one > point to stand and make a speech, all I could manage was to thank my friends > for being my friends. I've known almost everyone in attendance for 30 or so > years, some more. There were even emails from persons who could not attend, > such as one of my oldest friends, Paul Grenkow, who teaches English in > Beijing, who could not attend only because his wife was expected to give > birth on the day. > > I'm a lucky man. I have wonderful friends. But I do caution you to think > carefully about holding a surprise party for 60yo people. The heart > palpitations are unbelievable. On the other hand, what better way to go. > > A.