Rocky Smolin
rockysmolin at bchacc.com
Wed Oct 5 19:40:18 CDT 2011
"if it were my son, I'd want them." There's you answer, I think. Maybe Hanna will read them one day. Anyway, I think that's a wonderful idea, and a wonderful legacy for them to have. R -----Original Message----- From: accessd-bounces at databaseadvisors.com [mailto:accessd-bounces at databaseadvisors.com] On Behalf Of Susan Harkins Sent: Wednesday, October 05, 2011 5:25 PM To: Access Developers discussion and problem solving Subject: Re: [AccessD] Drew Wutka memorial ideas I was trying to think if his mom would like my copies of the articles we wrote -- some of them were in print, in IMA and a few others. I thought about sending her the actual journals. It seems kind of silly, they won't really want to read them, but... do you think she'd want them? He probably got a copy, but if they find them, they probably won't realize what they're dealing with -- will most likely think they're just old technical journals and throw them out. On the other hand, they might not care -- I just don't know -- it's not like they're great literature or anything, but I think... if it were my son, I'd want them. I just don't know what to do. Susan H. > One of the things that is especially helpful to children struggling > with grief is a memory book. Since our memories of Drew are > "virtual", we couldn't contribute photos or such, but the archives > must have many threads that include the outrageous exchanges we had > over the years with Drew in there fanning the flames. I wonder if it > would be possible to put something together with snippets of his humor > and insight and some typical teasing that might serve to remind her as > the years pass of the kind of person her father was. Those could be > put together in a scrapbook of sorts using online services and sent to > Drew's family. We could even collaborate with them in creating > something like that that included photos and such they would like to > use to remember him and to preserve his memory. I we covered the > cost, that would be a great memorial, and we could provide copies for > each member of his family. -- AccessD mailing list AccessD at databaseadvisors.com http://databaseadvisors.com/mailman/listinfo/accessd Website: http://www.databaseadvisors.com