jwcolby
jwcolby at colbyconsulting.com
Wed Oct 5 20:32:09 CDT 2011
I think they should be forwarded to the family. They might not know he was "published". John W. Colby Colby Consulting On 10/5/2011 8:25 PM, Susan Harkins wrote: > I was trying to think if his mom would like my copies of the articles we wrote -- some of them were > in print, in IMA and a few others. I thought about sending her the actual journals. It seems kind of > silly, they won't really want to read them, but... do you think she'd want them? He probably got a > copy, but if they find them, they probably won't realize what they're dealing with -- will most > likely think they're just old technical journals and throw them out. On the other hand, they might > not care -- I just don't know -- it's not like they're great literature or anything, but I think... > if it were my son, I'd want them. I just don't know what to do. > > Susan H. > > >> One of the things that is especially helpful to children struggling with >> grief is a memory book. Since our memories of Drew are "virtual", we >> couldn't contribute photos or such, but the archives must have many threads >> that include the outrageous exchanges we had over the years with Drew in >> there fanning the flames. I wonder if it would be possible to put something >> together with snippets of his humor and insight and some typical teasing >> that might serve to remind her as the years pass of the kind of person her >> father was. Those could be put together in a scrapbook of sorts using >> online services and sent to Drew's family. We could even collaborate with >> them in creating something like that that included photos and such they >> would like to use to remember him and to preserve his memory. I we covered >> the cost, that would be a great memorial, and we could provide copies for >> each member of his family. >