Mark A Matte
markamatte at hotmail.com
Thu Oct 6 10:28:21 CDT 2011
I agree. Drew was also listed as "one of the giants of AccessD" in Martin's book. Not sure his family knows that...but I think this is a good representation of how he was viewed and appreciated by the list as a whole. Mark A. Matte > Date: Wed, 5 Oct 2011 21:32:09 -0400 > From: jwcolby at colbyconsulting.com > To: accessd at databaseadvisors.com > Subject: Re: [AccessD] Drew Wutka memorial ideas > > I think they should be forwarded to the family. They might not know he was "published". > > John W. Colby > Colby Consulting > > On 10/5/2011 8:25 PM, Susan Harkins wrote: > > I was trying to think if his mom would like my copies of the articles we wrote -- some of them were > > in print, in IMA and a few others. I thought about sending her the actual journals. It seems kind of > > silly, they won't really want to read them, but... do you think she'd want them? He probably got a > > copy, but if they find them, they probably won't realize what they're dealing with -- will most > > likely think they're just old technical journals and throw them out. On the other hand, they might > > not care -- I just don't know -- it's not like they're great literature or anything, but I think... > > if it were my son, I'd want them. I just don't know what to do. > > > > Susan H. > > > > > >> One of the things that is especially helpful to children struggling with > >> grief is a memory book. Since our memories of Drew are "virtual", we > >> couldn't contribute photos or such, but the archives must have many threads > >> that include the outrageous exchanges we had over the years with Drew in > >> there fanning the flames. I wonder if it would be possible to put something > >> together with snippets of his humor and insight and some typical teasing > >> that might serve to remind her as the years pass of the kind of person her > >> father was. Those could be put together in a scrapbook of sorts using > >> online services and sent to Drew's family. We could even collaborate with > >> them in creating something like that that included photos and such they > >> would like to use to remember him and to preserve his memory. I we covered > >> the cost, that would be a great memorial, and we could provide copies for > >> each member of his family. > > > -- > AccessD mailing list > AccessD at databaseadvisors.com > http://databaseadvisors.com/mailman/listinfo/accessd > Website: http://www.databaseadvisors.com